Ladies, I want to talk to you right now.
I am going to keep this short and to the point.
If a man hit’s you, he doesn’t love you…He want’s to control you.
LOVE DOES NOT PHYSICALLY HURTIf he hit’s you once, belive me when I tell you, there is a possibility he will hit you again…
DO NOT STAY IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP!!!
There are some signs you need to be aware of…
He’s extremely jealous.Constantly asks you where you are going, who you are going to be with.He insists that you spend all /most of your time with him,
He will isolate you from friends and family.
He will make all of “your” decisions.
He will tell you “what to” and “what not” to wear…
He will become angry when things don’t go his way.Blames others for his failures.Extremely moody, nice one minute angry the next.He’s extremely charming and an a smooth talker.
He may have also come from an abusive home.
If a man hit’s you, he doesn’t love you…He want’s to control you.
LOVE DOES NOT PHYSICALLY HURTIf he hit’s you once, belive me when I tell you, there is a possibility he will hit you again…
DO NOT STAY IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP!!!
There are some signs you need to be aware of…
He’s extremely jealous.Constantly asks you where you are going, who you are going to be with.He insists that you spend all /most of your time with him,
He will isolate you from friends and family.
He will make all of “your” decisions.
He will tell you “what to” and “what not” to wear…
He will become angry when things don’t go his way.Blames others for his failures.Extremely moody, nice one minute angry the next.He’s extremely charming and an a smooth talker.
He may have also come from an abusive home.
Once this man starts beating you he will take your self esteem
and if you stay he may even take your life.
Don’t allow this man to isolate you from your family and friends.
He want’s total control of you. He can’t control you when other’s are around.
He has to break your spirit to control you.
He will tell you that you are worthless.
He will have you thinking that you are the one with the problem.
After he abuse’s you he might start to “romance” you…telling you that he is sorry and that he will never do it again. Thats a LIE.
You are NOT what he has been telling you that you are.
You are beautiful.
You can make it without him.
There are places out there that will help you.
There is also someone out there who will love you just the way you are.
If you are in an abusive relationship…it’s time to pack up and leave.
Even if you have to leave all of your material things behind….Leave!!!
Material things can be replaced…
Your life is more important.
Don’t allow this man to isolate you from your family and friends.
He want’s total control of you. He can’t control you when other’s are around.
He has to break your spirit to control you.
He will tell you that you are worthless.
He will have you thinking that you are the one with the problem.
After he abuse’s you he might start to “romance” you…telling you that he is sorry and that he will never do it again. Thats a LIE.
You are NOT what he has been telling you that you are.
You are beautiful.
You can make it without him.
There are places out there that will help you.
There is also someone out there who will love you just the way you are.
If you are in an abusive relationship…it’s time to pack up and leave.
Even if you have to leave all of your material things behind….Leave!!!
Material things can be replaced…
Your life is more important.
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