This is to my sister's who are "dating" married men.
I know you are going to get man, but it has to be said.
That married man is not "your man";
he is someone else's husband.
I hate to say it, but you are the "chick on the side",
the "other woman", "the side hoe".
I am so sorry for calling you those names, but those are some of the names that people call women who cheat with married men.
You are so much better than that and you deserve so much more than what you are getting.
You deserve a "single"man who will love you so much that he is willing to give his love to you only.
This man whom you are with now stood before God and others and confessed his love to the woman he married.
You are not that woman.
You only get a small fraction of his life but he goes home to his wife every night.
On holiday's he is with his wife and family and you are alone...
When he is on family vacations, you aren't thought of. Don't be fooled into thinking that you are. If he does calls you while he is away, it's only to make sure that you are on good terms for when he returns.
I know he promises to leave her and tells you that he only stays for his children.
Girl, don't believe that lie. That lie is older than you and it will still be around when you have left this world.
If he does leaves her for you, there is a possibility that he might do the same things to you. I can assure you that you won't trust one another.
The way you get him, may be he same way you lose him.
His wife didn't do anything to you.
The only thing she did wrong was to put her trust and love into a man who didn't deserve it. He is a liar and a cheater...
He is lying to her and cheating you out of someone better.
I know you love him, but love yourself more.
There are so many single men out there who would love to have you.
You just have to be patient and wait.
he is someone else's husband.
I hate to say it, but you are the "chick on the side",
the "other woman", "the side hoe".
I am so sorry for calling you those names, but those are some of the names that people call women who cheat with married men.
You are so much better than that and you deserve so much more than what you are getting.
You deserve a "single"man who will love you so much that he is willing to give his love to you only.
This man whom you are with now stood before God and others and confessed his love to the woman he married.
You are not that woman.
You only get a small fraction of his life but he goes home to his wife every night.
On holiday's he is with his wife and family and you are alone...
When he is on family vacations, you aren't thought of. Don't be fooled into thinking that you are. If he does calls you while he is away, it's only to make sure that you are on good terms for when he returns.
I know he promises to leave her and tells you that he only stays for his children.
Girl, don't believe that lie. That lie is older than you and it will still be around when you have left this world.
If he does leaves her for you, there is a possibility that he might do the same things to you. I can assure you that you won't trust one another.
The way you get him, may be he same way you lose him.
His wife didn't do anything to you.
The only thing she did wrong was to put her trust and love into a man who didn't deserve it. He is a liar and a cheater...
He is lying to her and cheating you out of someone better.
I know you love him, but love yourself more.
There are so many single men out there who would love to have you.
You just have to be patient and wait.
