Her Husband Is Not Your Man

“Thou shall not commit adultery.

Ladies, if you are dating someone who is married to someone else…that person is not “your man”, “your baby” nor “your boo”. That person is the HUSBAND of “the other woman”.

Let’s just keep it real. All you are to that man is “his side whore”. Let that sink in for a minute.

I know you want to stop reading this or curse me out. But please keep reading.

You are a beautiful woman who deserves better.

I don’t care what people have said about you in the past nor what they are saying now. God loves you but He hates the sin you are committing with this married man. And this is not what God wants for you.

This man was not sent to you by God. God would not “give” you a married man as the man for you. That would make Him a liar. And God does not lie. When He told us we would go to hell if we committed adultery and covet our neighbor… He meant it.

And you have also become a liar. God does not like a liar. In fact lying is an abomination to Him.

These six things the LORD hates,

Yes, seven are an abomination to Him:

A proud look,

A lying tongue,

Hands that shed innocent blood,

A heart that devises wicked plans,

Feet that are swift in running to evil,

A false witness who speaks lies,

And one who sows discord among brethren. ~Proverbs 6:16-19

You don’t think you are doing any of that? Let me show you that you are.

We have already talked about the adultery…Now we will talk about the coveting that you may not be aware of. You wrongfully want that woman’s husband without any regards to her feelings. You don’t care if you destroy her nor her family. It’s all about you. Just remember that what goes around comes back around.

You have become a liar, because you have to sneak around. You may even be lying to some of your friends and family about him. But more than anything you are lying to yourself.

He is not going to leave his wife for you and if by chance he does. Remember that if he cheats with you, he will cheat on you.

I want you to think of something else…

When this man gets what he wants from you, he goes home to his wife.

He has holidays with his wife and family. He might give you a few hours here and there. But in the end he is celebrating with his wife.

Vacations are spent with his wife. If he gives you a vacation, its only because he wants to keep you hanging on to stoke his ego.

If he dies today you will get nothing. You will get nothing.

I am going to tell you again. You are better than this.

God does want you to have that special man but it’s not this man. God wants you to be blessed with someone who will love you for you, someone who can give you all their time, love and devotion and someone who will serve Him with you.

But I really want you to read the Book of Ruth and the book of Esther to see how the Lord blessed them in the end…Neither of them cheated with someone else’s husband

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Life is a mystery; unfold it. 

Life is a journey; walk it. 

Life is a flower; smell it. 

Life is a gift; Open it.

 Life is precious; Don't waste it.

Kindness (Mark Twain)

Snow

“I love snow for the same reason I love Christmas: It brings people together while time stands still. Cozy couples lazily meandered the streets and children trudged sleds and chased snowballs. No one seemed to be in a rush to experience anything other than the glory of the day, with each other, whenever and however it happened.” 

― Rachel Cohn, Dash & Lily's Book of Dares

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Tell The Truth, Shame The Devil

I feel led to bring up an issue that some of you won’t like. But like I have told you before, If telling the truth is going to keep you out of Hell. I am serving my Father well

Some of you are "fathers" . . .

But how many of you are really there for your children?

Our fathers impact our lives in more ways then we can imagine.
Little boys try to walk and talk like their father.
Little girls look up to their daddies to love them.
It is said that the love a father shows his daughter
more than likely will reflect on the type of man she marries.

Now that’s something to think about . . .
I am not here to put down Fathers in any way. I thank God for the men who are there to support their children. And I am not talking just financially.
Children need more than financial support.
They need to know that they are loved and protected by both parents.
Not all of us have grown up in a Christian home. It’s unfortunate that many people have a hard time understanding the love of God, because their Father's were alcoholics, absent, or abusive.

Some actions are not that obvious . . . They can be controlling, unkind, always at work or they just don't care how they treat anyone.

How can a man tell you he is a "Christian" and that he loves God, whom he cannot see but have"living"children
Whom he shows no love or even cares to see?
"He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love." -1 John 4:8

Some of these men blame the mother as the reason they are not in the picture . . . It’s time to stop lying. If you were man enough to make a baby, Be man enough to take care of what you help create.

I can hear some of you ladies going Amen . . . But let me bust some bubbles here. Some of you are the reason a man won’t come around their children. You are screaming and hollering before the man can even say Hello to you or his child.
"A fool uttereth all his mind: but a wise man keepeth it in till afterwards."-Proverbs 29:11

A few of you wont let the man see his child(ren) because he doesn’t want a relationship with you.

Some of you are even saying he can’t pick his child(ren) up because you can’t stand the new woman in his life.

Ladies,

If the father of your children has (re)married get to know the woman . . . You may like her.

No matter what you say she will be a part of your children lives.

So work on your relationship with him and her.

Hatred stirreth up strifes: but love covereth all sins.-Proverbs 10:12

If you are screaming at the man before he enters the room. Yes, he is going to turn around and leave. Try sitting down with him and talking things out."She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness..." - Proverbs 31:26If you are using your children to get a man back . . .If you are using your children to get a man back . . .
Stop what you are doing . . . ,
Get on your knees and ask God to help you . . .
Not only are you making a fool of your self, You are hurting your children.And you are putting that man before God.

"Thou shalt have no other gods before me." Exodus 20:3

If that man is meant for you let God work it out.
In the meantime, work on your relationship with God. He will be there for you when no one else will.

There is something else I have to say to the men. And I am not talking about all of you men. But, you know who you are . . . Men, When you are alone with your children without the mother present.
You are NOT baby-sitting.
A baby-sitter is someone who watches a child in the absence
of the parent(s).
The time a parent is alone with his / her child is called "quality" time.

To the parents who have sons’ who aren’t taking care of their children.
Sit your son(s) down and talk to him.
Don’t uphold him in his mess.Your grandchild will be the one who suffers in the end."Train up a child in the way which he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it". ~Proverbs 22:6It’s our responsibility as Christians to "be love’. No, I didn’t mean "to be loved" . . .
I meant its time we start showing what love is.It’s our responsibility as Christians to "be love’. No, I didn’t mean "to be loved" . . .I meant its time we start showing what love is.

If you know a young person who needs an encouraging word . . . You be that word.
Let that child see the God in you.
Take the time to talk to one of your elderly neighbors.
Think about all the wisdom and knowledge they have to share.
See if the single parent down the street can use some of the stuff you are getting ready to put in a yard sale or trash because you think giving someone something will make them have more than you...None of us are perfect.
We have all made mistakes. But its time we start taking care of one another.
Especially one of His most precious gifts.
Our children

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Do things to make this world a better place.

Don't be proud of yourself for hurting others.

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Turn To God

No one has ascended into heaven except he who descended from heaven, the Son of Man. John 3:13

When I say "turn to God", I don't mean just when times are bad.

I mean right now.

You have done things your way for a long time and look where it has gotten you.

I know one place it's going to get you if you don't give your life to Him.

....HELL

I am not here to judge you. 

 But I do want to help you.

You can't live your life doing anything "you" want to do and still think you are going to spend eternity in Heaven. 

“Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’  Matthew 7:21-23

God loves you and He wants the best for you. Trust Him.

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